YOUR WORD IS ACTIVE

people listen carefully to your words, and then react base on what you have spoken. What you speak is proportional to the feedback you will receive. Before I speak, I should do a self evaluation of what I am about to say, because it end result will be determined by how it was been received. 

Major Effects of words

There are certain effects your words will produce, be it positive or negative. Some of these effects are:

Words Produce healing

When words are carefully chosen, they have a way of healing a wounded heart, carefully spoken words with the right content and proportion, can heal a wounded heart, give hope to what seems dead in an individual. A hopeless live can be revived when the right words are been spoken. It also implies that what I say about myself, can affect my life positively or negatively, which equally affect my mindset, and then affecting my living.

I will not forget a man who was told by his doctor 1about his medical report. The result stated that he has few months to live. He resolved within himself that he is going to use the remaining time of his life on Earth to enjoy himself. He traveled, to new places he hasn't been to for a long time, ate his favorite meal, played games, leaving life to its fullest, He enjoyed so much that he completely forgot about the doctor's report and the duration of his life on Earth

. When he remembered, he went back to the doctor, who saw a different man because he was looking healthy. He conducted another test which confirmed him free from the same illness he was diagnose of.

There are lesson to be drawn from this man situation. Firstly he removed his attention from the doctor's report and focus his attention on something else, that will be beneficial to his well being. In order words

when  we remove our attention from the problem, the problem erases itself from our lives

He resolved within himself not to be disturbed by his medical condition, and that directed his mindset in line with his confession, which eventually produced healing in his life. ,

I cannot forget the healing power of God upon my life, when I decided to act on what he declared upon my life. There was a time in my life when I needed the healing power of God, I told myself I want to be sure of the God I serve. And I must feel his presence, and visitation in my life. I bought drugs on regular basis just to make sure I take it when the symptoms of Asthma begin, because I was told it had no cure. I was desperate for God touch upon my life, He visited when i least expected, He told me to have a little faith, and forgive those who have hurt me. i acted on His words, His encounter set me free from the bondage of Asthma. when my mum ask me about my drugs, i told her, God said i can live without them. So our words can be healing to those that hear then when rightly spoken.

Words can build or break Relationship

There are consequences for every words being alter, it so disheartening that some people don't care to pay attention to their utterances, they allow words to be released out of their mouth without having a filter to regulate how they are been spoken, such people don't have control over their emotion. when wrong words are being altered it has the capacity to destroy even the most solid relationship. business relationship can be affected when wrong words are been altered. Before you conclude on a matter, proper verification should be done before blaming the parties involved. many relationships has been broken because of wrong judgement. And this normally happens when the parties involved rely on the verdict of the third party (judge)in deciding the direction of their relationship. when wrong words are constantly altered it has a word of destroying relationships.To have a good relationship there should be an evaluation on what i have in mind to say, the effects that they will have(positive) on the hearer, expecting the feedback to be appreciative, tender and loving, boost productivity in business,establish strong business relationship. enhance trust and commitment. words are powerful weapon used to relate what you have in mind,your opinion or idea on a matter.One have to think carefully before giving his/her opinion, because once words are altered they can't be retrieve back. They produces emotional potency that gives positive or negative ripple effects on your relationship, which equally return with positive or negative effects on the speaker. Your relationship is built up by the nature of words you use on your partner, for you to have a healthy relationship your words have to be clean, pleasant to the hearer. your words actually give the direction of your relationship, whether it will be peaceful or catastrophic. It is your utterances that will determine if your relationship will be well, because what you say shows how much you appreciate your relationship and your partner, because out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. pleasant words changes the bad intention of an individual, erases hatred, turns anger to joy. Your words make or unmake your relationships. when your soup is made up of right ingredients the sweeter it will become. .......to be continued