Words are the only tools that can make or unmake our society, for our community to be healthy, the right words have to be carefully selected. For us to have a joyful home, for violence to be eradicated from our world, country and states, words have to be carefully chosen to build hope, love, peace in our community. Wrong words are like unhealthy seeds sowed, to yield, regret or misfortune, prostitution, occultism...nice words can make a rocky or strong heart to be soften. Good communication make what seems to be impossible possible. It might seems difficult at the beginning, but with patience and constant persuasion, positive response is inevitable. Protocol can be compromise when the right words are adhere to. I can still remember a day, when I thought the problem my friend was in will never be unmake. A friend car was taken from him because he failed to purchase a ticket that will authorize him to work in that particular location. Honestly speaking, he didn't understand the process on how to purchase ticket, so he bought only one of the ticket, thinking that will cover him to work in all locations. due to this, he was taken to their council, where he will be made to pay a fee for his negligence. He went there not having the money to pay the fee. He explained his predicament to the man in charge, and after enough persuasion, pleading and patience, he even went as far as joining in their conversation, not related to why he was there. He was doing all these to initiate friendship. At the end his car was released to him without paying any fee. That act thought me a lesson that there is power in consistent persuasion, followed by right selected words.
During these time you might be spoken to harshly, insulted, but when your response is consistently positive, irrespective of what you hear, or how you are being spoken to, the end result will definitely be positive, nice word can make a murky situation to appear bright. There is power in spoken words
Right spoken words can change an action that was meant to be taken against you. this statement just made me remember my son Jesse, age three, when he does something wrong as little as he is he knows how to soften your mind from getting punished when he does something wrong, using words like "I love my daddy, mummy is fine'' by doing that he has succeeded escaping his punishment from his wrong actions. Your words should be carefully selected and aim rightly at its target, to achieved the intended result.
I have listened to several couples speak, what I hear most of the time is appalling, which got me thinking whether these couples truly love each other, or understand the position they now occupy. There are rules that govern this aspect of life called marriage, you don't just speak to impress the other person, or do things in your own selfish interest, what affect one now affect the other person, your words have to be true and spoken from a matured standpoint, having each other interest at heart, because at these stage your words are no longer taken as inconsequential, because it not a level for babes. There are rooms for learning because non of you were perfect when you both entered the marriage union, but when these mistakes constantly repeat itself, then one need to know if you really understand what the marriage union is all about.... Please Subscribe to this blog to get more update
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