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3-Phase Servo AVR (AC Voltage Stabilizer) — Troubleshooting, Repair & Maintenance By Edwin Ogie • December 18, 2025 • -- AC Voltage Stabilizer — 3-phase servo control type (example from user photo) A practical, step-by-step guide to diagnose, repair and maintain 3-phase servo Automatic Voltage Regulators (AVR) / servo voltage stabilizers. Written in simple terms for technicians and maintenance teams working with generators, UPS rooms and factories. Includes videos, spare-parts list, safety checklist, troubleshooting flow and links to internal/external resources. Contents Why this matters In environments with unstable mains (frequent sags, surges or phase imbalance) a servo AVR protects sensitive equipment by continuously adjusting an autotransformer tap via a small servo motor. A well-maintained stabilizer saves equipment, reduces downtime and prevents costly damage. ...
Social media shapes how we connect, share, and misunderstand one another. The immediacy of posts and messages can blur intentions, spark misinterpretations, and strain relationships. Establishing clear boundaries, following etiquette norms, and finding balance are essential to prevent conflicts online.
My Take on Social Media & Relationships
In my view, social media is neither inherently good nor bad—but it amplifies human tendencies. When used thoughtfully, it nurtures friendships and partnerships across distances. When used carelessly, it can fuel jealousy, miscommunication, and resentment.
The culprit often isn’t the platform itself, but our habits: oversharing personal rants, expecting 24/7 responsiveness, or assuming tone from text alone. To protect relationships, we need intentional online behavior as much as we need face-to-face communication skills.
For more on communication habits, see our YOUR WORD & YOU tag.
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Boundaries define what’s acceptable in digital interactions. Without them, we risk burnout, conflict, and emotional overload.
Define Your Availability
Communicate “office hours” for personal chats: “I’m offline from 8 PM–9 AM.”
Use status indicators or away messages on apps like WhatsApp or Messenger.
Respect Privacy
Get consent before tagging friends or sharing photos.
Avoid screensharing private conversations without permission.
Limit Consumption
Set daily time limits on apps (iOS Screen Time, Android Digital Wellbeing).
True connection blends virtual touchpoints with real-world interaction. Overreliance on digital channels can weaken empathy and trust.
Schedule Face-to-Face Time
Block recurring coffee dates or video calls in your calendar.
Plan quarterly or annual in-person gatherings with distant friends.
Use Social Media Intentionally
Limit scrolling to specific purposes: news, creative inspiration, or reconnecting.
Unfollow or mute accounts that trigger negative comparisons.
Reflect on Impact
Journal weekly: “How did my time online affect my mood and relationships?”
Adjust boundaries based on your reflections.
Practical Tips at a Glance
Announce your social-media rhythms: set expectations for response times.
Pause before reacting: reread messages to avoid impulsive replies.
Use voice notes or video messages when tone is critical.
Archive or delete heated debates—don’t let old arguments resurface.
Regularly review your “friends” and “followers” list for quality connections.
Conclusion
Social media can enrich relationships when navigated thoughtfully. By setting boundaries, practicing polite etiquette, and balancing online interactions with offline connection, we reduce misunderstandings and build stronger bonds.
Share your experiences in the comments and explore our Relationship Advice tag for more insights.
FORGIVENESS THE SECRET TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP Forgiveness is a critical aspect of human relationships, particularly in marriage. Treating others with mercy and leniency requires you to overlook misunderstandings and the wrongs they have done to you. The capacity to forgive is a fundamental virtue that is the linchpin of safeguarding relationships and leading a flourishing life. Lack of forgiveness causes lots of damage to marriages, and it is often the root cause of divorce in our society. It is, therefore, vital to understand that forgiveness is the key to a lasting, successful, and fulfilling marriage. Before embarking on the journey of marriage, individuals should take responsibility and learn to know themselves deeply. It is essential to realize that marriage is not a walk in the park. It requires perseverance, tenacity, and a loving spirit from the partners involved. When hurt arises, forgiveness is an indispensable tool that partners must employ to calm their difference...
EO Navigating Life’s Complexities Through Self-Consciousness A practical, story-driven guide to building mental resilience, clarity and better relationships in daily life. Expand all Collapse all Print Download .doc Introduction What is Self-Consciousness? Why it Matters The Nigerian Context Stories in Action Root Causes Upbringing & Environment Strategies to Grow Applications Exercises & Plans Scripts & Conversation Frames Resources Conclusion Introduction In a world of constant noise, stress, and social pressure, developing self-consciousness — the steady ability to notice yourself and choose — is essential. This post explains what it is, why it matters (especially in Nigeria), and how to build it with concrete stories...
Mastering the Art of Present Steps for Future Triumphs" In the pursuit of victory, every step forward is pivotal. It's essential to navigate your present position with care, for it is the springboard to your future achievements. How you handle your current endeavors directly impacts the path to your next conquests. Attempting to bypass or disregard your present circumstances can undermine your success in the steps that follow. In the realm of business, strategic maneuvering is essential to attaining your desired goals. Step into Consciousness: Harnessing Experience for Future Benefits Experience serves as our greatest teacher, guiding us towards tomorrow's rewards. Often, we fall into the trap of assuming the world revolves around us, treating our current situations with indifference and overlooking their implications for future outcomes. It's crucial to be mindful of how we approach our present steps, recognizing their significance in shaping tomorrow's victories....
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