Finding Your Why: A Practical 5-Step Exercise

Finding Your Why: A Practical 5-Step Exercise (Long Guide)

By Edwin Ogie — Edwin Ogie Library | Purpose · Mind & Wellness

A practical, test-and-learn approach to discovering purpose you can act on now.

“Purpose” is a word we hear a lot. In classrooms, in careers, and on social media it appears like an ideal: the thing that will fix disorientation, burnout, and restlessness. But purpose is rarely a single, dramatic discovery. For most people — especially students — it is a gradual unfolding through small experiments, honest feedback and careful reflection.

This long guide gives you a full, practical method to find, test and sharpen your purpose using a 5-step exercise you can complete in a week. Along the way you'll find examples, short case studies, worksheets, a one-week project blueprint, journaling prompts, and an action plan to turn your discoveries into repeated tests so your purpose becomes real, not just a feeling.

Who this guide is for

This guide is for students, early career learners, and anyone who wants to turn the idea of purpose into something practical. If you’re wondering what subjects to focus on, how to choose a project, or how to test whether a path actually energises you — this guide is for you.

How to use this guide

Read the whole piece or use it as a workbook. Each step includes a short explanation, a practical task, and examples you can copy. If you want the printable worksheet and a 7-day email guide, you can subscribe to Edwin Ogie Library or download the worksheet linked in the end notes.

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The core idea: test small, learn fast

Purpose is not a destination. Think of it like a compass that helps you choose experiments. Instead of waiting for a “big” calling, run small projects that match your interests and values. Measure how they feel and what others say. Repeat what energises you; stop what drains you. Over time the pattern becomes clear.

"Purpose is formed by doing. Each small action tells you whether you are moving toward something true for you." — practical paraphrase

The 5-Step Exercise — Overview

The whole exercise is built around 5 steps:

1. Collect meaningful moments
2. Find common threads
3. Write a one-line purpose statement
4. Design and run a one-week Purpose Project
5. Review, iterate, and plan the next test

Step 1 — Collect meaningful moments (10–30 minutes)

The first step is simple but powerful: list 8–12 moments when you felt useful, proud, energised or satisfied. These moments can be tiny (helped a classmate understand a problem) or larger (led a school project, fixed something at home, taught a younger sibling). The goal: gather raw data about what feels meaningful to you.

How to do it

• Set a 20-minute timer and write without editing.
• List the moment, the action you took, how it made you feel, and who else was involved.
• Be specific. Instead of “helped someone,” write “explained trigonometry step by step to my classmate and saw them score 8/10.”

Example entries

• Explained a physics concept to a friend — felt proud and energised when they finally understood.
• Fixed the wiring on a small lamp — satisfied by making something work again.
• Wrote a short blog post and got helpful comments — felt connected and useful.
• Organised study notes for a group and they all improved exam scores — felt effective.

Why this helps

These moments reveal what triggers your energy and satisfaction. They are clues to values and strengths you might want to turn into regular work or study.

Step 2 — Find common threads (10–20 minutes)

Now review your list and look for repeating words, roles or situations. Highlight verbs and outcomes: Were you teaching? Fixing? Organising? Making something clearer? Was the result earning money, saving time, or improving someone’s mood?

How to do it

1. Read each moment and underline key words.
2. Write those words separately and count which ones repeat.
3. Choose 3–4 words that appear most often. These are your initial clues.

Example analysis

From the example moments above you might extract: teach, explain, fix, write, organise. If “teach” and “explain” appear in many moments, that indicates a leaning towards education or communication.

Make a short phrase

Turn the words into a phrase that captures the pattern: e.g. “I enjoy teaching practical concepts to help others solve problems” or “I like fixing things and explaining how they work.” This phrase becomes the raw material for your one-line statement.

Step 3 — Write a one-line purpose statement (5–20 minutes)

A one-line purpose statement helps you say clearly what you want to test. It should be short, active, and testable. Use this simple template:

Template: I help [who] to [result] by [how].

Examples

• I help students pass maths exams by explaining tricky topics simply.
• I create short guides that teach basic home electrical repairs to beginners.
• I write clear study plans that help learners turn confusion into confidence.

Why one line matters

A short statement focuses your first test and prevents overcommitment. It’s not the final verdict — it’s a hypothesis you can validate in a week.

Step 4 — Design a one-week Purpose Project (15–60 minutes to plan, 1 week to run)

This is the heart of the method. Create a tiny, measurable project you can finish in 7 days that matches your one-line statement. The project should produce evidence: feedback, results, or a finished piece of work.

Design rules

• Small: no more than 30–60 minutes of work per day.
• Measurable: collect at least one piece of feedback or evidence.
• Timely: plan tasks for each day so the project completes in 7 days.
• Low risk: no big investment or commitment — you must be able to stop if it drains you.

Project templates

Pick a template that matches your statement:

• Teach test: Record a 5-minute explanation of a school topic, share it with 3 classmates, and ask for specific feedback (“Was it clear? Which part was confusing?”).
• Fix test: Repair a small household item (fan, lamp), document steps in a short post, and ask one neighbour if they found it useful.
• Write test: Publish a 800-word blog post that explains a practical idea and invite readers to comment or rate clarity.
• Organise test: Create a one-page study plan for a subject, give it to a friend, and check whether their study time improved after one week.

Daily plan example (Teach test)

1. Day 1: Choose topic & outline 5 points.
2. Day 2: Script a 5-minute explanation (bullet points).
3. Day 3: Record audio or video (one take ok).
4. Day 4: Edit lightly & upload (blog or WhatsApp).
5. Day 5: Share with 3 classmates & request feedback questions.
6. Day 6: Collect feedback; summarise patterns.
7. Day 7: Make one improvement and reflect.

Collecting feedback — be specific

When you ask for feedback, give a short form: 1) Was it clear? 2) Which part confused you? 3) Did it help you solve the problem? This makes the responses useful.

Step 5 — Review & iterate (15–30 minutes)

After your week, answer three focused questions. Your answers decide the next step.

1. Energy: Did the project energise you or drain you?
2. Impact: Did you produce something others found useful?
3. Next change: What will you change for the next test?

Decision guide

• If energy is high and impact is positive → repeat with a larger or more frequent test.
• If energy is moderate but impact is strong → adjust to reduce effort, focus on the part that drives impact.
• If energy is low and impact is weak → stop and try a different idea that uses one of your other common words from Step 2.

Deep dive: journal prompts & reflection worksheet

Use these prompts in a notebook to deepen your learning after the project.

• Describe the single best moment of the week. Why did it stand out?
• What did you learn about the way you like to work? (e.g., planning vs last-minute, talking vs writing)
• What feedback surprised you and why?
• What would you change about the project to make it 50% easier or 50% more effective?
• On a scale of 1–10, how much would you enjoy doing this weekly for 6 months? Why?

Examples & short case studies

Case study — Mary (student who loves explaining things)

Mary regularly helped classmates and noticed she enjoyed breaking down problems. She ran a 7-day Teach test: recorded short lessons for her math class and asked for feedback. The result: classmates used her materials in study groups and one teacher asked her to lead a revision session. Mary now runs a weekly micro-lesson, and she is exploring a tutoring side project that can grow slowly while she finishes school.

Case study — David (student who likes fixing things)

David fixed household devices for family members. He tested this interest by repairing two lamps, documenting steps, and sharing on a small local WhatsApp group. He found the repair process energised him and the documentation helped neighbours. He didn’t want to run a service full-time, but he now schedules one afternoon a week to help neighbors and records short guides that he posts on the blog.

Common pitfalls & how to avoid them

• Waiting for a dramatic sign: Purpose rarely arrives as a dramatic revelation. Avoid waiting — use small tests.
• Testing things that are too big: Big projects burn time and keep you from learning fast. Keep tests small and measurable.
• Confusing popularity with purpose: A viral idea may be fun but not energising. Check whether it motivates you to keep doing it.
• Ignoring feedback: Feedback is data. If friends say they didn’t find a resource useful, ask specific questions and improve.

Toolkit: templates & scripts you can copy

Feedback request script (message)

“Hi! I made a short explanation on [topic]. Could you watch it and answer 3 quick questions? 1) Was it clear? 2) Which part confused you? 3) Did it help you solve the problem? Thanks — your reply helps me improve.”

One-line purpose templates you can adapt

• I help [students/people] to [learn/solve] by [explaining/simplifying/repairing].
• I create [guides/tutorials/short lessons] that [make complex ideas practical].
• I support [learners/neighbours] to [gain confidence] by [creating quick how-tos].

7-day project checklist (printable)

1. Day 1: Choose topic & write a simple plan.
2. Day 2: Prepare material (script, tools, guide).
3. Day 3: Create the content (record, repair, write).
4. Day 4: Publish & share with 3 people.
5. Day 5: Collect feedback.
6. Day 6: Summarise feedback & evidence.
7. Day 7: Improve one part & reflect (journal prompts).

How to fold purpose into daily life

After a successful test, you can choose simple ways to grow it without losing balance:

• Set aside 2–3 short sessions a week for purpose work (micro-lessons, guides, repairs).
• Keep an “idea notebook” for project prompts — add one every week.
• Pair purpose projects with study: teach a topic you’re revising (helps both you and classmates).
• Measure with small metrics: number of people helped, time saved, improvement in scores, or personal energy levels.

When to get help

If you feel stuck, anxious or discouraged, ask someone you trust — a teacher, mentor or friend — to read your plan and give brief feedback. If you ever feel overwhelmed by choices, break everything into the next small task and do that one thing.

FAQs

How long does it take to 'find' my purpose?

There is no fixed timeline. Some people get strong clues after a few tests; for others it takes months. The important part is repeating small experiments and learning quickly.

What if I have many interests and can't choose?

Try the “list 5 meaningful moments” step and run very small tests for each interest. Often one will be easier and more energising than the others; follow that trail for a few cycles.

Is purpose the same as career?

Not always. Purpose is about value and meaning; career is one way to express that. Your purpose might appear in many careers or in side projects outside work.

Next steps — 30-day purpose plan

After your first week, use this simple 30-day rhythm:

1. Weeks 1–2: Run 2–3 small tests (one per week) and collect feedback.
2. Week 3: Choose the best idea and run a larger but still small 2-week test (twice-weekly output).
3. Week 4: Decide whether to continue, adjust, or switch. Create a simple 3-month plan if the idea grows.

Free worksheet & 7-day email guide

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